Your attitude, the way you think or feel, is generally reflected in your behavior. Your own personal demeanor affects the way people view and respond to you. The attitude of people around you has an impact on the way you respond and behave toward them. I believe that temperament impacts people both emotionally and physically, and for that reason a positive attitude is important to a person’s emotional well-being.
Your own personal attitude has a great impact on how you feel throughout the day and your overall outlook on life. If you feel that life has thrown you the scrungy bone and you must gnaw away at it, you will likely make very little progress and will feel depressed, over burdened and uninspired about life. Not only will your attitude leave you feeling low, but it will be portrayed in your dealings with others, and may leave them feeling oppressed by emotions as well.
Alternatively if you go through your day with a positive attitude, knowing that no matter what happens things are going to improve, your positive outlook will not only keep you emotionally stable, it will affect those around you as well. Why? Because with a positive mindset you maintain an emotionally healthy attitude, and that positive outlook is well received by all around you. 
The attitude a person portrays has great impact on how others perceive them. This is frequently most obvious when dealing with economic differences. A person’s temperament when interacting with those he/she perceives to be below their social class is one of the most obvious insights into a person’s character. Stiffness, curt politeness, a lack of genuine friendliness or outright rudeness is evident in those who think themselves better than others. Far greater is the person who realizes those differences yet treats all with kindness and compassion.
If you have the opportunity to take part in a gathering in which there are a wide range of economic levels sit back and enjoy the show. People of money may snub those who they view as being below them. Those who are of lower income ranges may be intimidated by the social status and obvious wealth of others. The true judge of character in this type of setting is the person of wealth who treats those who are 
struggling economically with consideration, kindness, and as an equal. This is a person of great integrity. They recognize that they have obtained wealth, but they do not fault those around them that have been unable to achieve that goal.
It is important that a person maintain a positive attitude as that is crucial to success, and the key to success is belief in one’s own ability. This does not mean you will always achieve your goals. The key to keeping positive is to always be striving for something. Regardless of whether or not you succeed, attitude is at least 50% of the battle. There is a saying, “Whether you believe you can or believe you can’t, either 
way you are right.” That is how strongly attitude affects your ability to succeed in whatever you set out to accomplish.
As you go through life keep your attitude in check. Think about how it affects your own emotional well being. Think about how it affects the emotional well-being of others. Don’t focus on problems, focus on possibilities. Keep your integrity about you and let it guide you in how you handle interactions with others. Think positive. Believe in yourself. Believe in others. A positive attitude will take you farther than you ever dreamed possible.
landing me in a trauma center for seventeen days, rehab for two months, and then a year of physical therapy and medical follow ups after that. Two of my granddaughters were taken by Child Protective Services and put into foster care. My husband and I applied to foster them and were denied, we later applied to adopt them and again CPS fought us and we lost. Both girls have been adopted by strangers.
I look at the list of things I have handled in the past few years and in my opinion have coped well with everything life has thrown at me. I have often felt that I have strong coping mechanisms but don’t really know why. I am baffled when people have one issue on their plate and are falling apart at the seams. I delved into the article hoping to discover what it is that makes one person successfully juggle a plethora of issues while another crumbles under the slightest amount of pressure.
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--- LIFE IS A MELTING POT --- Grace Grogan...Writer, Photographer 