Take a walk with a young child; listen to them chatter as you drive in the car, watch their eyes sparkle with excitement and exploration when dealing with everyday things. Children know how to live. They enjoy the pure, simple things in life and find joy and excitement in them.

Photograph by Grace Grogan Copyright 2014
Take some time to step back from the routine of everyday life and learn to view life through the eyes of a child. Once you learn to do this, you will experience life at a different level than those around you. Anything and everything is open to exploration and joy if you allow it to be.
You approach the railroad crossing, the bars go down, you are stuck waiting for a very long train. What do you do? Do you grumble about the delay, check your cell phone while you wait, or do you enjoy the train? My six year old grandson is happy as a lark when you get stopped by a train, and the longer the better. It is exciting, there is the engine, all the different kinds of cars in multiple colors, shapes, some have graffiti, some don’t. They rumble and shake and make various sounds. Some go fast, some go slow. It is exciting to see the different things about each train and car. What a disappointment when the last car rolls by and the safety bars go back up, but if you are quick enough you can look down the track and see the train chugging away. A train through the eyes of a child.

Photograph by Grace Grogan Copyright 2014
Take a walk through the woods, but really “see” the woods. As a nature photographer I have learned to look more closely at what is around me. This was drawn to my attention a couple years ago when taking a walk around an uninhabited island with my cousins. I was taking photographs and told them they did not have to wait for me. When we completed the walk there were many things I spotted that they did not…a snail on the ground, a spider making a web, the beauty of a side trail filled with daisies, and more.

Photograph by Grace Grogan Copyright 2014
So why did I spot those things and they did not? Because they were walking through as adults, enjoying the quietness of the setting, the beauty of the large picture. I was walking with a photographers eye, looking for the things to capture with my camera lens. Look down, look up, look off to the side. There is a whole world out there you are missing. If you don’t know what to look for, walk through the woods with a child. They will spot all kinds of interesting things you don’t notice such as leaves on the ground, moss on a tree stump, toadstools, bugs, anything small and at their level. 
Experience life through a child — buy a jar of bubbles and blow them into the wind, hear the water lapping up onto the beach, notice the pebbles in the sand, bird feathers on the ground, the chirp of a bird, the hop of a grasshopper or the inching along of a caterpillar on a leaf or the sparkle of a beetle on a plant. The simple things in life. The beauty of the world around us.
There is a saying “Take time to smell the roses.” When you do that, you will find life more relaxing, more enjoyable. Stress will not have as great an impact on you. All you need to do is view life through the eyes of a child.






A couple years ago my husband and I were in a restaurant that was quite busy and we had to wait for our table. I was looking around the restaurant and I mentioned to him that he and I looked very out of place. The reason being we were the only two people in the entire restaurant, both the dining and bar areas, who were not on our phones. We were talking to each other instead! That is sad….people are losing the human connection.

If you research racial injustice for the 1940’s you will find that the treatment of “Bigger” portrayed in the novel is a very accurate representation of the mindset during that era. Lynchings were common for anything and everything considered inappropriate. NAACP members campaigning to get those of African American decent the vote where removed from their homes and lynched. A 26-year old man was lynched for failing to address a police officer as “Mr.” If a white woman was attacked it was assumed that a black man had committed the crime and the “suspect” would often be captured and lynched. Justice did not prevail.
We have come a long way in the acceptance of others since the 1940’s when 